When God Collapses My Illusions About People
God uses the collapse of my illusions—especially about other people—to lead me into a more truthful, less idolatrous love. Only Christ can bear the weight of ultimate trust and satisfaction; people cannot. God is the true satisfier When I love someone without loving God first, I ask that person to supply “every perfection and every rectitude”—a demand no human can meet. When they inevitably fail us, I can become cruel, vindictive, or jealous. There is only one Being who can satisfy the deepest ache of the human heart: the Lord Jesus Christ. In other words, God reveals Himself as the proper object of my ultimate hope, security, and satisfaction—not a spouse, friend, parent, leader, or church community. God gives clear-eyed love God-given disillusionment is distinguished from bitterness. To be disillusioned is to lose false appearances and false judgments; done merely by experience, it can make me cynical and harsh. But disillusionment that comes from God enables me to see people as they...